Stop right now and digest the fact that men generally have the upper hand because they have more to do than women. You wouldn't have any respect for a man who thought about you every minute, who neglected his work and friends and hobbies entirely, for your sake. Then see to it that you don't get in that state, either. Get it through your head that no man can fill up your life completely, and start finding more things to think about.

---from How About a Man(1938)